Peter e-mails bloggers: Megan Edition

OK. So, yeah, a new blog project. I like doing different stuff with blogs. And this one is pretty complex. Don’t let the title fool you. There are subtle nuances and varied layers of —

Oh, screw it. The concept is: I e-mail bloggers. They write me back. You get to peek over our shoulders at what we are typing. Hopefully it’ll be fun for you. Even if it’s not, I still get to e-mail with awesome bloggers.

Up first is one of my long-time blog friends, Megan/Hellafied. If you aren’t yet reading Megan, you should totally remedy that. Megan has the soul of a poet and the body of that receptionist at your girlfriend’s office that you swear that you weren’t looking at but, man, you were so TOTALLY looking at.

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Dear Megan,

A while back, you e-mailed me with a book recommendation. In your note, you mentioned that I write about women “with respect and a boyish awe.”

At the time, I thought it was interesting, but you said other lovely things about my writing, so I focused on them. While fixing my hair in the mirror and winking at myself.

Well, at first I thought you insulted my writing, so I RAGED. But then you explained yourself and I went back to adoring.

(I didn’t really rage.)

(As far as you know.)

I had hoped that I wrote about women with respect. (Anything that smacked of disrespect was definitely meant as a haha.) I never really thought about “awe.”

But I like it.

I’d much rather be in awe of you mysterious beauties than be jaded, you know?

It does make me wonder a little about how I come across in some of my posts. On the STOG, I wrote an open letter to Lauren Graham. It was meant to be funny. But it was linked on a Lauren Graham fan message board. One poster – presumably a teen girl – said that the post made her feel a little bad for me because I seemed helpless. Or hapless? Something.

It made me laugh.

While I’m definitely not super smooth with the ladies, I’ve done alright historically. (Quality, not quantity, of course.)

One thing I love about your writing is how open and honest and pure it is.  Do you ever wonder about how it comes across to your readers?

In awe,
Peter

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Dear Peter,

In short, yes. All the time.

Every time I press that “Post Blog” button. As I write this email. In quiet moments at home I am yanked out of domestic sanctuary and filled with feelings of dread about it. Pervasion. All of my thoughts, all of the time.

I know I am a good writer, but I don’t always feel that way. I often wonder sometimes that my writing comes across as trite or self-important.

It gets me good and bothered for a minute, barely settling under my skin, but that’s as far as it goes for me. I’m aware of all the different ways I could come across to people, but I try to let the writing define me, not my audience.

I can pretend out there in the real world, put on the face I want people to see, but I am who I am when I write. It’s that simple. I wouldn’t even know how to fake it.

And I have enough confidence in my writing and the strength of my voice to let the good comments soak in and the bad ones roll off.

Short and sweet, Peter.

Thanks for letting me play,
Megan

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  1. Ben says:

    My open letters to Kelly Clarkson have been posted on surprisingly active fan forums. In fact, the largest traffic spikes have been from her fangirls coming to LOLZ all over my comments. I feel pretty good about it in retrospect.

    Very eloquent response, Megan. I think that sums it up for a lot of us.

  2. shine says:

    I think she’s right. It does come across as boyish awe. And a little arrogance. But in a cute way.

    Megan, I’m convinced. I’ll go read.

  3. Matt says:

    Great response Megan.

    and Peter? I hope you get to meet Lauren one day. And I really hope Ben gets to meet Kelly CLarkson… that would make for one hell of a vlog. Can you picture Ben? All giddy?

    How do I make this happen?

  4. Sarah says:

    Respect and boyish awe, what a delightful combination.
    I really like this new project! I’m off to preemptively yell at by boyfriend for potentially checking out our pretty receptionist….I mean, check out Megan’s blog.

  5. Katie says:

    I envisioned you raging and it made me giggle like a school girl.

  6. Amanda says:

    I would have leaned more toward “testosterone-fueled appreciation” than “boyish awe.” But that’s the beauty of the way different personalities perceive others, and filter experiences, isn’t it? It would be impossible to be the same thing to all people, but at least one can count on – as Megan says – being who they are when they write. Well said!

  7. LiLu says:

    “Thanks for letting me play.”

    Best signoff ever.

  8. BS says:

    I’m guessing the boyish awe is what makes you come across as charming. That and poems about bums.

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